Tuesday, December 6, 2016

finally home

This morning Carter needed to go to Primary Children’s Hospital for a cat scan. The nurse saw that I had Carter and Sydney all by myself, so she asked the Shriner’s van driver to help me in and stay with me, very kind of her. The driver was an elderly man and is a Shriner, who volunteers once a week by driving people where ever they need to go…another hospital, home, etc. He helps with the other Shriner’s to raise money, since the hospital will not bill patients if they can’t cover all the costs. We’ve been so blessed by the many volunteers like him. Shriner’s bills are insurance and then will cover what you can’t.

Carter did great for the scan and his hip looks positioned well, so the doctor will leave this Spica cast on, rather than replacing it tomorrow! Which means we can go home tonight.

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My mom and Marlee were at Shriner’s when we got back from Primary Children’s. It was good to see them. My mom is always a huge help and strength to me, especially since she’s dealt with a child having multiple surgeries and body casts. Whenever I feel like freaking out a little, I just remember that she did this, so I can, too. My biggest regret is that I never took any pictures with her and Carter at Shriner’s! Marlee loved coming and playing doctor to Carter’s bear. It’s been fun having her here all day and she especially loved raiding the snack area. She’s the cutest doctor I’ve ever seen!

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We decided Carter needed a break from his hospital room, so we busted out our wagon and took him on a ride and he brought his favorite snack, goldfish.

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I am loving that Caroline, the Child Life Specialist put a matching cast on his bear and then we mod podged batman fabric and tattoos onto the Spica cast. They are in this together, batman casts and all and boy are they looking cute!

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Carter has also loved glove balloons and popsicles (I think he’s eaten an infinity of those things).

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These two finally conked out.

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I love that Carter’s siblings want to visit him. All this love is sure to make him heal faster.

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It’s very late, but we want to go home, so one more nasty dose of medicine before we hit the road. Honestly, taking all the meds has probably been the hardest on Carter. We definitely need to find some good tasting meds for this kiddo, because he’ll be taking plenty this week. And thankfully, we remembered to grab a pile of mole skin petals on our way out. 

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Clayton didn’t get to visit Carter in the hospital, so he was very anxious to see him. It’s nice to have all the cords disconnected from Carter. His feet are still pretty swollen, especially his left foot. This kid impresses me so much, he’s a trooper!

Monday, December 5, 2016

Surgery, for real this time

Well, we are keeping Shriner’s busy today. The genetic doctor wants full body x-rays of Carter and Porter. Carter recently got blood work done that showed he has GDF5, so we believe Porter has it, too and probably Sydney (but she’s too young for x-rays).

Here’s the definition I found, because heaven knows I don’t know how to explain it-

Growth/differentiation factor 5 is a protein that in humans is encoded by the GDF5 gene.

The protein encoded by this gene is closely related to the bone morphogenetic protein (BMP) family and is a member of the TGF-beta superfamily. This group of proteins is characterized by a polybasic proteolytic processing site which is cleaved to produce a mature protein containing seven conserved cysteine residues. The members of this family are regulators of cell growth and differentiation in both embryonic and adult tissues. Mutations in this gene are associated with acromesomelic dysplasia, Hunter-Thompson type; brachydactyly, type C; and chondrodysplasia, Grebe type. These associations confirm that the gene product plays a role in skeletal development.

Full body x-rays aren’t really possible to take with a body cast on, so Carter had to get his taken before surgery. It was pretty early, so there was only 1 x-ray tech in at the start of the process, which meant Porter and Laun stepped into help, while I held Sydney. Porter snapped the x-ray pictures and Laun helped hold Carter.

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It went pretty smoothly and Porter and Laun make some cute assistants.

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Carter loves anything Halloween, which includes skeletons, so it helped him cooperate when we’d tell him we were taking pictures of his skeleton. My favorite was when Porter would take a picture and comment…something like, you have a huge head Carter, hahaha.

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Then trying to relax before surgery. Deep down I get pretty anxious for surgeries, it’s a fear I continually face throughout my life, but I don’t think it will ever completely go away. Especially, when that surgery is on my child. I am struggling with the thought of this kid in a body cast for at lest 5 weeks, maybe longer, depending on how surgery goes.

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This girl and her long tongue, love her.

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If your child has to have surgery, Shriner’s is the place. I love it hear and that seems weird to say about a hospital. They always have toys, stuffed animals and blankets for the kids. Carter got this bear, is with his dad and is on his happy drugs, so he’s pretty good at the moment.

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I don’t ever like seeing my kid wheeled back into OR and I’ve seen it more times than I’d like, but I know he’s in good hands. I don’t know how my parents did this over and over again with me. Waiting for a child while they are back in surgery can be hard.

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Thankfully, we had lots of distractions while Carter was back in surgery.

Porter got full body x-rays and got to go in this sweet machine.

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Sydney was happy as can be for her ultra sound and to play in the huge rec room. Her hips are looking good. She has 1 more week of wearing the Pavlik harness 18 hours a day and then moves to 12 hours.

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We ate breakfast together in the cafeteria.

Waiting for Carter- it’s been really nice having Porter here today.

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From the rec area I could see Laun in our hospital room.

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I spy me in an ornament and Laun in the room! There’s more than one way to get a couple picture!

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The rec room is the best. We played basketball and ping pong.

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Carter finally got out of surgery and we talked to his surgeon Marcella Woiczik. We have good news and bad news. The bad news is they did way more in surgery than planned, so he’s not going to be in a body cast for just 5 weeks like we thought, more like 8-12 weeks! The good news, the doctor is so happy with how the surgery went and thinks that even though it was more invasive, that the long term outcome of him having a better hip is more likely. She cut into his left hip joint and cleaned out the scar tissue. The hip socket is now in a better position and covered with a roof, which she did by cutting the pelvis and using bone graph in 2 places. The joint capsule was very stretched out, so she tightened it. Overall, great news, even though he will be in a Spica cast for a long time. The saddest part was when he told Laun, “I’m stuck” and it broke our hearts. For his other surgeries he was younger and hadn’t learned how to crawl or walk yet, but now he’s so mobile and to hear him verbalize that he’s stuck made me so sad for him.

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He’s been surprisingly chill for just getting out of surgery and in a spica cast. He’s been snacking away.

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Brothers, just watching a movie and eating popsicles.

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Last time Porter and I were at Shriners together, we tried out a place called Hires and we really liked it. So Laun and Porter went there and brought dinner for us.

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There’s going to be a lot of laying around today. I love seeing Sydney on that big bed.

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We’ve done our share of movie watching today.

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Trying to keep Carter happy with his bear, books and movies.

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But the best way to keep him happy is to have snuggles with his daddy. That cord down his back is his epidural, he’s got an IV in and a catheter in- he’s got tubes all over, but not as many as Cooper had!

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Only one adult can spend the night, so I stayed and I also have Sydney with me (that’s what happens when you have a nursing baby)! Wish me luck tonight. I felt a little lonely and anxious as I watched these 2 walk out to head home. In that circle, looking so tiny and far away, is Laun and Porter. But how can I be lonely, when I’ve got my 2 babies with me!?

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And let me tell you, with Carter’s bed, mine and Sydney’s play pen and all our stuff, we are filling up this room! Carter is enjoying a popsicle and watching the minion movie (which he pronounces like lemon movie), that’s pretty much what he’s been doing the whole afternoon and evening. What a trooper he’s been!

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Friday, December 2, 2016

the littles

I have an amazing visiting teacher named Nancy. She has started taking Marlee to and from school each day. It has been great to not worry if Carter takes a late nap, if I’m in the middle of baking or chores. I offered to drive one way, but her daughter is older and so she told me not to worry about it since I would have to load up 2 little ones. This is really going to be life changing when Carter is in his body cast and I don’t have to load and unload him twice a day. I’m so grateful for her service.

Here’s Marlee waiting at the door for her ride.

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It almost makes me sad to see how happy Sydney gets when she has time out of her Pavlik harness. She loves to grab her feet & smiles like crazy.

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I got our of the shower to Christmas ornaments on the ground. Cater has definitely been here.

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love my baby girl

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Thursday, December 1, 2016

the good with the bad

slumber

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Anger- she's sick of the harness.

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It’s looking like Christmas. We’ve had that wooden felt nativity from Martha for so long. It’s perfect for little kids to play with. And I’m loving that stocking holder Laun made me years ago and my mom brought up Sydney’s stocking. Larett Layton embroidered an S on it. So all our stockings are done! I bought the material at JoAnne’s fabric store that was closing years ago when we lived in Tucson. I cut out all the stockings way back then (9 to be exact-in case we had more kids, we’ve had 2 more since then). Larett embroidered the first letter of all our names on them and my mother sewed them, big group effort, Then my mom made a tree skirt from the extra material.

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